“My Flaws Make Me Who I Am” ‘Kittism’, Eartha Kitt’s wisdom is ancient

A wonderful story to start the new year.

May your year be filled with love.

Start with loving YOURSELF first. 


The Parable of A Cracked Pot  ~Author Unknown

A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck.  One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master’s house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years, this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water to his master’s house. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments, perfect to the end for which it was made.

But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection and miserable that what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one day by the stream. “I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you.”

“Why?” asked the bearer. “What are you ashamed of?” “I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master’s house. Because of my flawsyou have to do all of this work, and you don’t get full value from your efforts,” the pot said.

The water bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said, “As we return to the master’s house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path.” 
Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it up a bit.

But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half its load, and so again it apologized to the bearer for its failure.  The bearer said to the pot, “Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of the path, but not on the other pot’s side? That’s because I have always known about your flaw, and I put it to good use. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you’ve watered them.  For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master’s table.

Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house.”

The moral of the story:  Each of us has our own unique flaws. We’re all cracked pots. In this world, nothing goes to waste. You may think like the cracked pot that you are inefficient or useless in certain areas of your life, but somehow these flaws can turn out to be a blessing in disguise.  Remember, nobody is perfect.


A story to share

My mother embraced WHO she was, she would say, “My flaws make me who I am”. She was unique, and always encouraged me to chart my own path, and not to worry about what others do or say. To BE the best ME.

Embrace who YOU are. Love YOURSELF first.


Remember ~ Treasure ~ Love…. Kitt


Here is one of my designs using my mother’s words:

My Flaws Make Me Who I Am chain wrap bracelet

“My Flaws Make Me Who I Am” ~Eartha Kitt










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4 Response Comments

  • Doreen  April 11, 2014 at 9:19 AM

    Learn from this story

  • Dawn  December 26, 2017 at 6:42 AM

    Wow! I neefed this at this very moment

  • Sheldon  January 1, 2018 at 9:11 AM

    Happy New Year Shapiro’s and Simply Eartha and thanks for your Mum’s beautiful story of the “Cracked Pot” Kitt!!! Cheers can’t wait till Jan 17th it will be even better Eartha Kitt Day 2018

  • Anthony Fonti  January 1, 2018 at 12:29 PM

    You never cease to amaze me Kitt. There are so many that feel like the little cracked pot and never realized that we have much to give….flaws and all.
    Happy New Year to you and yours Kitt. Tony.


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